Happy News!

After exactly 17 months of therapy under Kerri's supervision, I was just beyond ecstatic to be told and confirmed by Kerri that Raiyan's "basic language" is in place. This means that from a place where he was completely unable to converse and was only communicating his needs with hand leading, crying or at best, uttering 1-2 words at most, he now knows and understands the use of "basic language" that has been directly taught to him in the last 17 months, such as:

• labeling vocabulary of body parts, rooms of the house, things found in the rooms, things found in places etc etc (nouns)
• functions of people, places and things
• prepositions (on, under, behind, next to)
• what is bigger, smaller, more than, less than
• all sorts of verbs like standing, eating, clapping hands etc
• what, when, where, why, who questions
• how questions
• opposites
• attributes
• adjectives
• past, present and future tense
• pronouns-he, she, they
• you and I
• contractions (he's, she'll)

and many more!

Not only can Raiyan converse with anybody now (providing people speak slowly and wait patiently for his lagging response! This we are still working on constantly!), he can easily independently write sentence after sentence to make into a paragraph. Just this week alone, he spent much time drawing a dinasour board game, complete with instructions on how to play, an invitation card to his birthday party for his teacher and all his classmates (complete with when and where it's going to be and what's going to happen at the party) and a "comic" book story of his trip to the zoo with Adek and Fadhil (his BFFs!).

Jeff and I feel like we are constantly keeping up with him and his amazing progress lately that we realise now how much we have underestimated him all this time. Also, how much we have really forgotten what it was like with him before because it is just so easy to take for granted now how I am able to just talk to him about anything and not only would he be able to understand what I'm saying but he can actually contribute something back to the conversation.

With the language in place, Kerri tells me the next steps for us to drill in him is to use the language appropriately, especially in social settings. All of us can tell that Raiyan has been developing a conscience socially and it really seems like he wants to have friends to talk to and play with but realising that sometimes he does get ignored by them (especially during times when he goes on and on about dinasours and animals!). Nonetheless, on the whole I am very pleased with Raiyan's progress when it comes to mixing together with his classmates as I do see him interacting and having some level of a relationship with at least 3 other kids in his class, so that's very nice for me to see.

To help improve him more in this area, Kerri is planning to have more social skills groups during the summer break where Raiyan and the other children with autism can mix with typical children so as it can be "practice" time for them, and especially for Raiyan who will undoubtedly be facing more social challenges when he goes up to Year 2 next year. **Any parent who are reading this and would like to volunteer their typical child to be part of these social skills groups is MORE than welcome to contact me and we would really appreciate to have your child around. I should say however that it would be helpful if they can speak English as you know these kids are being mainly taught to speak in English.

Now with that happy reporting, I just have to find the pweshes time to upload the many pics I've taken of Raiyan's creativity and progress! Look out for the dinasour board game, the birthday invite and pics of Raiyan and his friends at school to be posted up very soon! Promise!